Pitou does not meaningful have gender. All evidence-based arguments end there. However, they have a obviously feminine body, and a feminine voice (by human standards), so its understandable to want to default to mentally assigning them feminine gender.
As you all know, Pitou's gender is a big debate among readers of HunterxHunter. In this post I will explain you why it is a debate and the wrong beliefs some people think.
Instead she is called with "aitsu" (あいつ). if Togashi is the one who told the people from shueihsa to call pitou with kare then why is Pitou never called with kare in the whole manga? It somehow show it was an error from the people who wrote it.
Athough we do have a general idea of how each character was evolving: Youpi was becoming an honorable character who grew to respect his opponents, Pitou was becoming an empathetic character capable of making connections with people other than the king, Pouf was entirely and insanely devoted to the king.
Pitou was a cat Chimera Ant, and like a cat, loved to play with their opponents like a cat would with their prey. Despite their cheerful and playful manner though, Pitou had a cruel and terrifying personality as well.
Pitou is torn between wanting to fight and protecting the King. Neferpitou was very loyal to the King and would sacrifice themself for him. Of the three Royal Guards, Pitou was the most curious and would get distracted easily and loved to play, and according to Shaiapouf, would get carried away when having fun.
They asked them for mercy with no consideration of fighting them by putting their hands upward—a signal that predators use to surrender—to show a lack of malice in order to fulfill the King's order to save Komugi. When surrendering, they expressed their true affection for the king, understanding that Komugi helped Meruem become the individual he was now, and if Komugi was killed, Meruem would cease to be who he was now. Even after their death, Pitou's Nen still remained; their Terpsichora, even stronger than before, manipulated their corpse to attack Gon to protect the King.
Appearance. Neferpitou had the appearance of a humanoid cat with wavy white hair. Their cat-like ears and tail were covered with yellow and white fur, respectively. They had ruby-red eyes, and their knees had demarcated joints like insect legs. Neferpitou's hands were slightly larger than an average human hand.
Neferpitou's name, like all of the Royal Guards, probably comes from an Egyptian god, Nefertem, and a character named Pitou from a French children's book series called Caroline et ses Amis.
They had ruby-red eyes, and their knees had demarcated joints like insect legs. Neferpitou's hands were slightly larger than an average human hand. Their clothes were a blue overcoat with six yellow buttons and cuff links, shorts and orange socks with thin black stripes, and a pair of blue shoes.
Neferpitou refuses on the grounds that they had a use for Kite, but none for the Queen. Noticing the King's disappointment with the food, Neferpitou says they do not use any seasonings. Understanding the King is referring to prey capable of using Nen, the Royal Guards escort him as he looks for some.
In it, Neferpitou is referred to using the pronoun (kare) which is usually translated to “he.”. When speaking, Neferpitou uses the pronoun “boku,” (translated to “I” in English) which is used by boys and young men, but it's also used by some less femenine sounding women. ".
So, it is possible that Neferpitou's gender in the manga differs from the anime. Basically some say she's a girl in the anime and a male in the manga...but basically she's genderless until he says otherwise. Plus No...just no, not all are males, there were a Ton of female ants.
From all this, it should be assumed that Neferpitou does not have a specific or “confirmed” gender. Because of this, this article uses non-gendered pronouns such as "they/they're.". In the manga, Neferpitou's chest is totally flat. In contrast, the 2011 anime may depict Neferpitou by giving it a prominent bust.